Teddy: Well man you never got to really know me but I got to know you a little. Hopefully about the time you can tell what's going on they got their shit together. I love you buddy I always wanted a brother and I'm going to come clean but the way you came in this world was crazy but you are loved. Teddy you are a Grant man but look at our father he is a great example of a man. Yes he has his faults but he's human and he didn't get the love we got. He had to fight everyone around him to be a great man, so don't be too hard on him but still give him hell kid. Take care of Karen for me, she may seem like she can do it all but she still needs her brother no matter what. I'm sorry I won't be there to teach you the things an older brother is suppose to do but that's life. And by the time you read this I know for a fact u have younger siblings. So grow into a great man and be the person you want to be Theodore, I love you.

Karen: Hey loser I'm talking to you from the dead how freaky is this. I'm going to get to it because this is kind of hard. I love you sis and I always will. We had some wild times in that prison we called home but we were the most popular kids and had the fewest friends, but we had each other. I'm going to miss sitting in the closet with you and talking. I know you hate me for leaving you and I'm sorry for that but you have our memories there's a box full of SD cards of pictures of us and our fam bam. I won't be there to grill your first boyfriend, I won't be there for your first heartbreak, I won't be there for your wedding, and the birth of your kids but my baby sis I am always with you. Always. Back to the pictures I want you to develop them for me and fill books for everybody. You, Zaire, Mellie, Teddy, Dad, Olivia, and siblings. Speaking of Olivia I hope you are treating her nice she didn't mean to fall in love with a married man and he didn't mean to fall in love with her. I have a recording of a conversation of theirs-I know creepy- but I'm glad I did listen to it hear them. Karen when they talk to each you will figure out what love is from them, its powerful so make sure you have tissues because whoo those two are just too much. And I know I don't really have a right to ask you this but I love Liv I consider her my mom. Give her a chance you are in fact both women and in the world people see that you being invalid. Mellie and Olivia are both great examples of great women. God knows they both are crazy, intelligent, and beautiful. Granted they have issues but who wouldn't dealing with dad and us rascals. Karen know this from me I'm fine you are the best sister anyone could ask for. I love you and reach for the stars.

Future brother and sister: Hey kiddos well you're not kiddos seeing that your 16 today. Allow me to introduce myself I'm Jerry your big brother. I've been gone for a while and hopefully you have heard of me. I'm sorry I can't be there to guide you, but I do love you. Mom and dad love you and I know they probably give you a hard time buts its only because they love you and they are trying not to be their parents. I wish I could be there for your birthdays. If you are a girl don't ever let any man bring you down and make you feel inferior to him and don't let him put his hands on you. And if you're a boy don't be the one to lay hands on a female but don't let that female do the same to you. I know got deep there but hey I have pass on wisdom somehow.

I know you probably heard how mom and dad met but it wasn't like that. Do not ever call mom anything like a mistress, whore, or black mistress, home wrecker because she was not. Do not call dad a man with jungle fever, dirty old man, or having a mid life crisis back than because it wasn't, true they met under bad circumstances but love does get to conquer all. All those harsh words were thrown at mom and dad a lot especially by my biologically mother. Mom and dad love you with all their hearts so take it easy if they ever make you mad. Some advice love and love hard, enjoy life, and remember family is key. I love you and happy birthday. I'm watching over you and I'm proud and I can't wait to see what's to come.

Jason: Well Jason welcome to the family. I don't know you and you don't know me but I do love you. I hope that you feel loved and part of the family. I don't have much to write but become a good man and follow your dreams.