r/LegalAdvice

u/sisterruniedmylife247

My sister's husband filed a restraining order. How can I fight this?

It's so ridiculous, and I can't even believe this is happening. He got a restraining order by saying I was stalking and harassing him. All I did was contact him on Facebook Messenger, and Instagram, and Snapchat. We used to be the best of friends. We were in love in high school. But ever since he's been with my sister, he refuses to acknowledge what we once meant to each other.

I plan to go to court to fight the restraining order. Tell me what the best way to go about this is. Should I get a lawyer? Do I need one?

Comments:

u/Zveka - You really must harassed him if he got a restraining order

u/NKubie - u/sisterruniedmylife247 I'm really doubting your story you narcissist! I've been following your posts and posts by the other parties involved and you're delusional. I think you should take that money you were going to use in court and apply it to a good therapist. You have issues, girl!

u/musicdaydreams - LMFAO! Just when I think you can't get more delusional, you top yourself. You are not the wronged person here but you definitely are in the wrong. Accept the restraining order and try to get on with your own life. For your own sanity (if you can find it).

u/trisha63 - u/sisterruinedmylife247 - Denial isn't just a river in Egypt! Gal, you are one delusional psychopath. What you really need is a doctor, a really good Psychologist and a nice long stay in a mental hospital. No lawyer needed. PLEASE GET HELP

u/traceybuie - to u/sisterruinedmylife247 - hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha no wait... hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha I can't breathe... hahahahahahahahahaha

u/LilCullen454 - Lady, you are crazy! Edward never ever loved you or wanted to be with you! In fact, he has said he could barely stand you back in high school! You are harassing him! You need to leave them alone!

u/maniacalmuse - "We were in love in high school" … LOL! Sure you were, Tanya. Sure you were. XO

u/dowlingnana - Are you for real u/sisterruinedmylife247? Of course, he got a restraining order you ditzy delusional psycho. He will have all the proof he needs with all the sites you stalked him on. (Why he didn't block you though is beyond me.) Best of friends? Was in love? Go ahead, waste your money on a lawyer. He'll take your money while he's laughing behind your back, but hey, if you want to throw away money why not. Just add it to your already list of the stupid, idiotic, delusional life you live. BTW, I'm SMH big time at you!

u/lillianolivia - Girl, are you serious? Your shenanigans are putting your sister's pregnancy in danger. Of course he is going to slap a RO on you. And in HS, you were obviously the one in love, not him. And after what you did with your sis' BF, he is probably disgusted with you. You need to cut your losses and stop this foolishness.

u/KDMCAM - u/sisterruinedmylife247- U R F-ing delusional! I remember u from years ago! One true Psycho B#$! Your username says it all. U feel ur sister ruined your whole life, but U think it's ok to contact her husband? I hope some lawyer takes ur case and steals ur money! When the judge sees how U react in court, u will have punched your one-way ticket to the Looney bin! Padded room here u come! Do us all a favor and go play in traffic! Relieve us all of your madness!

u/HiraFrance - You don't court but doctors cause you have problems with your brain

u/kristysmom - Omg you dumbass twit seek professional help for your delusional self the man never wanted you leave your sister and her husband alon

u/That'sMzPeachesTYVM - Oh, my sweet, dear baby Jesus, in heaven! Are you for real, girl? I recognize your handle from posts I followed years ago. Seriously. You screwed your sister's b/f of two years, then cried foul when she went after your his crush. (Funny how that relationship grew in magnitude over time.) I'm gonna go ahead and guess that you didn't just try once, or even twice on all of those social media platforms. I'd wager you tracked him like the dog in heat that you are.

u/VryUnique - The best way to go about this is TO LEAVE HIM ALONE! They don't give just anybody a restraining order, he had to prove he was being harassed. The man doesn't want any contact with you, you need to respect his decision, the Police agree. Why are you harassing your sisters husband?Anything you need from him should go thru your sister, unless you have nefarious reasons. Do you? Is he your high school boyfriend? That's what you made it sound like. You need to leave them in peace!

u/TwimomJen - Are you for real? Aren't you the same person who slept with her sister's boyfriend then turned the family against her? And had the nerve to crash her bridal shower.. just leave them alone. Evidently you only meant something to him in your sick twisted mind.

u/astonmartin823 - WOW They need to up your meds. You're getting delusional... (Oh, wait to late..) Leave them alone!

u/EriCastelo - You don't need a lawyer, no, you need therapy!

u/tattedmomma - Omg Tanya you are delusional. Leave your sister and her husband alone

u/Annie Butts - If someone let's you know that they don't want to hear from you, you should respect their boundaries

u/ChristyWIX - WTAF? No you don't need to get a lawyer, you need therapy. I cannot believe you are still on about this. Your posts from years back had other posts laying out the real story back then. The man himself, the one who filed the restraining order, has said he never liked you back then and always had a thing for his now wife. ROs do not just fall out of trees, which means the police agree with your sister's husband. Get yourself some mental help STAT! Leave them alone.

u/JentheBaker - Honey, sounds like his view on your "relationship" doesn't really vibe with yours. Leave the man alone. Move on and seek professional help.

u/avagurl - Yeah. Get a lawyer. Go to court. He will still have a RO and you will eventually go to jail for violating it. Move on. You can't win this one.

u/edwards-debussy - Wow the delusion is strong within you. Maybe instead of wasting money trying to retain a lawyer you should buy a clue and realize that your sister and her husband want NOTHING to do with you. Go live your life in peace and leave them alone or your "ruined life" will get much worse I'm afraid.

u/Eternally Addicted - u/sisterruinedmylife247In love in high school? LMFAO He barely knew you existed! You don't need a lawyer or a court room. You need a psychiatrist.

u/AmandaCat - Wow. Just. Wow. You need to move on from this. Clearly you are not wanted or needed by your sister's husband. And you are totally disrespecting your sister and her marriage but NO surprise there…I've read your past posts you nasty trick. And I just realized you spelled RUINED wrong you twit! Sigh. SMH. LOL.

u/mnnlisa - Maybe get a clue that he's not interested?

u/starsmina - Damn girl, you are truly insane. You're living a whole life that no one else knows about, but you. The man never even looked twice at you, never had a relationship with you and now I understand why your parents are on your side. Get a clue, get a life and if you want to spend all that money, sure, get a lawyer, but, get some help as well

u/GorGirl - u/sisterruinedmylife247 - Oh my! You sound very distraught. Are you more upset because you lost your sister, or that her husband doesn't want you pestering him? There are different ways to handle this. You can just let him get the restraining order and let them live in peace. You could also get a bulldog lawyer to drive in the point that you really do need to be restrained. Let us know what you're going to do.

u/Mom23xx - Lol I hope you get arrested girl. How are you so obsessed still?

u/GottaLoveFanFiction - So with the info you provided, you currently you sound like a stalker. So you were in love when you were younger. Now he's with your sister, which means you all broke up, and he's moved on. Let it go, he's not interested. Save your money and respect the law (restraining order) or don't and get tossed in jail for your stalker ways, which you totally deserve if going by your letter.

u/2old4fanfic - Please please please contact a lawyer. Everyone needs a good laugh during their workday!

u/Ricephira - u/tanyathedelusionalwhore you do not need a lawyer at all cos noone will represent you. just go to court yourself and insist to the Judge that yall were in love and hes refusing to a knowledge it. the Judge will then rule in his favour. he will get some peace and you will get a reality check.

u/biblepam - hey, u/sisterruinedmylfe247, no lawyer needed. A psychiatrist perhaps, but not a lawyer. Facebook Messenger, Instagram, AND Snapchat? Girl, get a life, and we know who you are and you were barely acquaintances with your CRUSH, who you never even dated! I think I hear Rev Preston once again with his Bible, "Delusions"!

u/princeselisa - It sounds like you are completely delusional. You may want to consider going to a psychologist to get that taken care of. Kudos to him for blocking your crazy ass

u/roxiegirl - Oh Tanya. You are delusional! ;)

u/karo29 - Oh my ...you really are a piece of work...or sh*t.. leave them alone, they dont want to know about you or your blind parents...stop to play the victim. they are happy together

u/Flippysten - She's still living in fantasy land, time for a reality check.

u/katinki - Girl, you need help. Get thee to therapy and leave your sister's family alone!

u/AnakinSmom - First, change your Reddit name to CLUELESS! As I recall from previous posts he was someone you had a crush on that was unrequited. He loves your sister and wants you to stop harassing them. How hard is that to understand? Please hire a lawyer and pay them a lot of money to get you laughed out of court. I'll bring the popcorn!

u/EdwardsFirstKiss - Stalking on social media is a cyberstalking crime and can lead to jail time. I think he is sending a clear message to you... LEAVE THEM ALONE!

u/BehindEverySmile - Ha! "best of friends"? Hahaha! Girl, I don't know what world you live in, but we have all followed this story and know exactly how delusional you are. Good lucky you're gonna need it if you try to fight it.

u/mysticfighter111 - If a person files a restraining-order, they want to be left alone. Ridiculous is bombarding your sister's husband on all social media available. After taking her then-boyfriend to bed you want to go after her husband now? Get over your jealousy, get a life and leave the happy couple alone. You want to go to court anyway? I'm sure Jacob will be happy to give you his lawyer's contact info, ha, ha.

u/SassYNoleS - Ladies and gentlemen, u/sisterruniedmylife247, is the epitome of stupid .. If someone ignores your messages and attempts at you contacting them, via multiple apps, it is safe to say they want nothing to do with your stalking arse! And good luck finding a lawyer that will represent you when they find out what you've been upto .. Hahahahahahahaha !

Notes: To my guest reviewer, I am unable to reply to you directly.. so happy to have you along for the ride even though the story isn't really your style. I will say though that you are NEVER too old for Reddit! ;)

Hopefully by the time I Have posted this (about six hours after writing this author's note) I will have some more posts ready lol. The train rolled into procrastination station!

Update: 6ish hours later... I have written all the final posts to this story! They are awaiting my beta's magic, however if she doesn't get time I will post on schedule tomorrow and put up the beta'd copy after! You will have daily posts until May 22, 2023 when the final post will go up.