Disclaimer: I own barely any of this
Being a dad means confusing your wife's childbirth pain with her being in medical distress. She's miserable. But it's not Code Blue
Neji's labor was painful. Yes, it did hurt like a mother and yes, in the end it was more than worth it but Gaara liked to think of it as the end of the world for Neji. Gaara thought Neji was dying from an unknown pregnancy-related cause. In actuality, Neji's labor pains were pretty much average. Gaara hadn't known that, a great deal of time after the labor pains were over. In fact he didn't know it until the birth of Seiko.
"Neji, I would like to say I'm sorry for putting you through this again." It was so typical of him. He never learned his lessons. Years and years of no emotion other than anger and bitterness caused him to not have a clue about saving his loved ones from indescribable pain.
"Put me through what?" Neji shrieked. For all his cool composure during labor Neji turned into one of those hysterical girls that couldn't stop screaming and shrieking.
"This! You having go through with this. I'm happy that soon we're going to have a daughter but you're suffering!"
"Through what?" Along with intense pains, Neji was pretty confused.
"Labor!"
"I'm not suffering! They're giving me an epidural in like ten minutes."