Haruno Yasu-o
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"Hey, hey, Yasu-o." Naruto added the 'o' as an afterthought. "Why don't you like your name?"
The now teenage, pink-haired (with this kind of luck he'd end up reborn again but with lime green hair) Kakashi glanced at his sensei's son from where he was weeding. "It's too feminine."
And would have been worse if he hadn't been basically silent when born, his new parents had been planning on naming him Sakura of all things.
"But-...you're a girl." the blond said in tactless confusion, on the other side of him Sasuke gave a kind of twitch and his older-alternate self made an aborted motion to pinch the bridge of his nose from where he leant against a tree.
Yasuo sent his teammate a flat look as he yanked a weed from the ground with a bit more chakra-assisted force then absolutely necessary. "I was born female but I am male."
"How?"
Really, it was only how puppy-like the blond looked that allowed him to keep his patience. "You've henged into Hokage-sama before haven't you?" He waited for a nod before adding, "Just because you appear like something doesn't mean you are it."
"Oh…" Naruto looked thoughtful. "Then...what does your family think about you being a boy?"
His voice was flat as he answered, standing to carry an armful of displaced weeds to their 'pit' that the jinchuuriki had somehow convinced them to make- burning the weeds would work just as well to get rid of them. "It's not something they want to listen to. The were expecting a little princess to spoil, they got me."
"But you-..!" the blond looked upset even if he didn't know how to verbalize it- even Sasuke was frowning from where he was pretending to be ignoring them.
Uchiha, honestly.
"We've compromised. I'm not forced into dresses or skirts if I behaved myself in an acceptably kunoichi-like way- hence learning to use a shukusen as my primary weapon and learning...other skills." Yasuo stated bluntly. "Doesn't mean I'll be sticking around once I've made chūnin."
"You-" Naruto flailed, just a bit. "You're family!"
Something sardonic spread over his face, "Sometimes that's not enough, Naruto-kun."
Or where Kakashi has gender issues on top of identity issues.