Everyone familiar belongs to Janet.

Despite Stephanie's current views on a paper marriage, I did buy her a ring right after we'd chosen a name for our daughter. I wanted it clear that, while I'll always respect her opinions and decisions, I'm devoted to her and Olivia. The thin diamond-set band and matching diamond-lined 'O' for Olivia at its center, is as much a vow to me as the ones taken inside a church.

My body, time, and non-business thoughts, are hers ... and Stephanie knows I expect the same from her in return. That she immediately kissed me before sliding my purchase onto her left ring finger, left no doubt in my mind that we're on the same page regarding our commitment to each other and our child.