Fandom: Grimm

Pairing: Sean Renard/Gender neutral character

AUTHORS NOTE: I have never tried something like this before. I tried to keep it as gender neutral as possible, as well as making it as inclusive as possible for everyone. This is SFW (for the most part). I may give it another go at a later date, because I have so many ideas.

Edited to give Sean's partner a gender neutral name and they/them pronouns.

A = Affection:

Ash is an affectionate person, very big on hugging. They are known among the group for their warm hugs. Sean, on the other hand, does not appear to be an affectionate person. However, when it comes to Ash, he loves nothing more than holding them in his arms. Sean doesn't believe his day is complete without one of Ash's famous hugs.

B = Bargain:

One thing Sean and his partner have in common is that they will do almost anything to get their own way. While Sean's methods could be considered morally and sometimes legally questionable, his partner's approach can involve anything from pouting, begging, baked goods, light blackmail, or straight up annoying the hell out of people.

C = Confession:

It took some time for Sean and Ash to admit their feelings for one another. After years of flirting (with Wu doing some on Sean's behalf), Ash was the first to make a move.

"Look Sean, I like you, you like me. Should we give dating a go?"

Sean was so surprised; all he could do was nod and say "Ok."

"Great. Pick me up on Friday at 7pm."

It wasn't until they had been dating for a while before feelings of love were confessed. And again, it was Ash who made the first move. They were at Sean's house, sitting in the living room reading their individual books when Ash looked up at Sean. "Sean…".

"Hmm?"

"I love you."

Again, Sean is surprised, because despite his confidence in most areas of his life, he does not believe that someone could love him for him.

"You don't have to say it back. I just wanted you to know."

"No..no…I…I love you. I do." He stammered. "I just…didn't know if you felt the same way.

Ash smiled at him. "Well, I do."

All Sean could do in return is kiss them.

D = Dates

Sean is used to the finer things in life. Expensive restaurants, the opera and theatre, etc. Ash, not so much. For their first date, Sean took them to one of the most expensive restaurants in Portland. On his way to drop Ash at home, they turned to him, place their hand on his and said "Sean, I really enjoyed our date. But just so you know, you don't always have to take me to a fancy restaurant. I am happy with anything, even if its takeout and a movie at home in our pyjamas."

Sean glanced at them. "Really?"

Ash nodded, squeezing his hand. "Really. Don't get me wrong, I loved the food. If I ever say no to trying new food, you know something is wrong. But honestly, I am just not used to it. My last partner was not one for making a big deal of dates."

Sean squeezed their hand in return. "Well, your last partner was an idiot. You deserve to be spoilt. However, I think I can swing movies and takeout at home from time to time. I'm not use to a date wanting anything other than a fancy restaurant."

Ash laughed. "Well, they were idiots. There is more to dating than expensive dates."

And from that point forward their dates involved a mix of fancy and expensive, and laidback.

E = Evenings
As a police captain and resident Grimm wrangler, Sean does not always have a free evening. However, when he does, he makes sure to make time for his partner. Some nights they eat out at an expensive restaurant or local diner, see a movie or the opera. Other nights they stay in. Nights in can include dinner and a movie or cuddling up on the couch, reading their respective books.

F = Feelings

Sean realised early on after meeting Ash, that there was something different about them. He was drawn to them instantly, although he was not sure what he felt. They were very different from anyone he had been involved with before. It took him a while to pick on their flirting and even longer for him to start flirting back. Ash was instantly attracted to Sean. They were a little intimidated due to position as a police captain and felt he was out of their league. That did not stop them from flirting with him though.

Over the years they continued flirting with each other. It took a while before realising their feelings for each other. In fact, their group picked up their feelings for each other before they did. After Wu attempted to flirt with Ash on Sean's behalf and made a comment about them taking too long; that is when Ash began to acknowledge their feelings for Sean ran deeper than simply flirting or friendship. This was solidified when Sean hijacked a date, they were on with one of the officers from the precinct, under the guise of looking out for Ash. Ash just knew Sean turning up to their date was not a coincidence. Although annoyed at his presence, they couldn't help but feel a tug at their heartstrings at Sean's obvious jealousy.

Sean had realised his feelings long before Ash had. It had been during one of the few times he was sick. They had shown up to his place, barged in with groceries and medication, forced him to sit down on the couch, and cooked him their go to dish for whenever they were sick. They proceeded to take care of him for the duration of his illness. Sean couldn't remember the last time someone had taken care of him when he was sick. Although he grumbled about being a grown man who could take care of himself, he was touched. It was also when he realised that his feelings could be more than anything he had experienced before.

G = Growing

Sean has certainly grown throughout his relationship with Ash. His past relationships had a give and take approach. He was not used to someone who was purely interested in him as a person, not what they could get from him. Furthermore, he was used to being with people who expected him to provide them with the finer things in life such as expensive gifts and dates. As such, his first date with Ash included dinner at an expensive restaurant and a bouquet of roses. Despite knowing Ash for years, he was still surprised when they admitted they didn't need expensive things. They just wanted to spend time with him. Ash helped him to realise that there was something to the simpler things in life, and he grew to appreciate them.

Sean's relationship with Ash also allowed him to be truly open and vulnerable with someone; without fear of it being used against him. It did take time, but eventually Ash broke down those walls Sean had surrounded himself with to protect him. Those walls were still up for most people, but Ash had the privilege of seeing beyond the image he projected.

H = Home

For the first year of their relationship, they lived with separately. Sleepovers started about six months in and they exchanged keys not long after that. It was after their one year anniversary, when Sean realised that Ash spent all of their time at his place. It took him a few more months to work up the courage to ask Ash to move him with him. They laughed. "My love, I have been living here for three months." Sean didn't have much to say after that.

I = Intimacy

Although both have experience with relationships, both Sean and Ash had never experienced a relationship like the one they shared with each other. Most of Sean's relationships had been purely sexual in nature. Meanwhile, Ash's relationships had been short-lived with the relationships fizzling out quickly. Intimacy was a learning experience for both, as they navigated a relationship filled with intimacy that didn't revolve around sex.

J = Jealousy

Both Sean and Ash get jealous, especially at the beginning of (and even before) their relationship. If Sean sees someone making a move on his partner, he will approach them and placed his hand on their shoulder or middle of their back, while glaring at interloper until they walk away. Ash will act in a similar way, putting their arm around Sean's waist and making some comment that lets their perceived rival know that Sean is taken.

K = Kissing

There is a lot of kissing. Kisses on the lips, forehead, and cheek to name a few locations. Their kisses can be slow and loving or fast and passionate. Their first kiss is slow and shy for both parties. It happens after Sean has walked Ash to their front door after a date. They stand there awkwardly for a moment, before Ash wraps their arms around Sean's waist and with their eyes on his lips says "I really want to kiss you." So, he does. As mentioned, it is slow and both parties are shy about it. The second kiss, which follows it, is a little more passionate and interrupted by the neighbour. From that point forward, kissing is an important part of their relationship.

L = Love Languages

Sean initially shows his love through gifts, expensive ones. Over time, he finds that although you do appreciate the expensive gifts, you are happy with anything he gives you. Food and little thoughtful gifts, no matter their cost. He also comes to realise that his receiving love language are words of affirmation and physical touch. Throughout his life, most physical touch was either through abuse or hollow sex. However, as physical touch is one of the ways his partner shows love, he has come to crave it. He has also come to appreciate the love shown to him through words of affirmation. Ash is always building him up and acts as his biggest supporter in ways that no one has ever done for him.

M = Marriage

Sean had long disregarded the idea of marriage for himself; but since dating Ash it is something he has considered. He plans to spend the rest of his life with them, if they will have him. It is something they would discuss and agree would be something they want to do. Sean would decide to propose and have a ring specially made for his partner. He would spend a lot of time trying to plan the perfect proposal. And once he does, Ash would say yes. The wedding would be a small and intimate ceremony with only those closest to them in attendance. The honeymoon is something that Ash would let Sean spare no expense on, as they wouldn't mind going to some beautiful place.

N = Nicknames

Ash's nickname for Sean can vary depending on their mood, but their favourite is 'My Love'. Sean typically uses 'Darling' or 'My Love' as well.

O = Couldn't come with anything for this one.

P = Playful

Sean isn't an overly playful person, but he does have his moments. As he is taller than Ash he likes to hold things out of their reach. Ash is definitely the more playful one.

Q = Questions

Sean is not used to opening up to people or sharing a lot of information about himself. Nor was he the type of person to ask a large amount of questions to get to know people unless it was to his benefit. He dislikes people asking him a lot of questions, with the exception of his partner. Which is a good thing, because they ask a lot of questions.

R = Remember

Sean is great at remembering things. He is usually the one who remembers things like their first date, first kiss, and what day they first met.

S = Sleep

When sleeping, Sean is usually the big spoon but does love to be the little spoon on occasion. He loves wrapping himself around his partner, knowing he can protect them as the y sleep. Sometimes however, he does need the comfort and feeling of safety that can only come from his partner and being the little spoon.

T = Talking

Despite their differences, they do find a lot to talk about. Work, Wesen, movies, books, music. They enjoy learning about each others interests.

U = Uplifting

Ash always had a way to lift Sean's mood, even before they were dating. Whether it be via a hug, by making lame jokes to make him groan with hidden laughter, providing words of affirmation or listening and being present after he had a bad day. Ash has a way with uplifting Sean.

For Ash, Seans presence and allowing them to vent before hugging them is all the need for their mood to change.

V = Vacation

Due to Sean's job, there are not many opportunities for vacations. However, they do find time to take mini vacations over the weekend every now and then. They usually head out of Portland to visit the surrounding areas. When they have larger vacations it is usually overseas, somewhere with rich history.

W = Wardrobe

Sean is usually well dressed. For work, it's a suit and when off the clock he is still well-dressed. Although, Ash has him wearing sweats around the house more often.

Ash values comfort, although their outfits have some style and usually match. Outfit, hat, shoes, etc.

X = Xtra

Both are terrible patients when sick. Sean insists on pretending he isn't and continues on as normal. Meanwhile, Ash can be just as bad, although when they take it easy they are a pain the ass.

Y = Yearning

Sean does not like being separated from you for long. Before they moved in together, he would try and see you everyday, and if he couldn't, he would contact you whether through phone calls or text messages. Ash is the same, keeping in contact whenever possible if seeing each other in person is not an option.

Z = Zzzzz

Sean works late often. Most of the time, Ash is asleep before them. They may try and stay awake to spend time with him, but usually fail. When they go to bed at the same time, Ash can fall asleep pretty quickly, while it takes Sean a little while longer. He doesn't mind, it means he can hold his partner and watch them sleep.